Denim that is…
Finally Friday, relaxing, comfy in my favorite jean shorts, very big, not-so-warm sweater.. and cozy boots (not pictured) I bought these beautiful roses because they matched my nails today… yes, I have issues. My love will buy me flowers but there are some things I really enjoy doing for myself. Anyone else love to buy themselves flowers? I love buying them for my girlfriends too!
One of my clients this morning asked me about confidence and how/why do I have so much of it. So here is my little list. Maybe you will agree, maybe not. First off; I like to work and make my own money. It is so important to know what it is like to work for your belongings, the roof over your head, food, etc. I feel if everything is handed to you, you are missing a big piece of the confidence chip. What do you have to be proud of? Self worth knowing you accomplished something, even if its buying those plastic Chanel sunglasses for $450.00 (eek, plastic.. maybe think twice about that) but if you worked for it, you have the right to be proud of whatever you decide to blow your money on.
Second; I don’t take my self seriously. Fun, laughter is so important. If you can’t make fun of yourself ( I mean, come on!) stuffy or what we consider “snobby” women and men are not fun and have arrogance NOT confidence. Last as I have stated before… there will always be someone prettier, funnier, richer, better, faster, smarter (I can keep going) than me. I never think twice about that. I don’t know jealousy and I am so thankful! If I bumped into Giselle Bundchen tomorrow I would proudly stand next to her! Of course pick her brain on her beauty rituals (who wouldn’t) Oh and take a bunch of selfies with her! I know how amazing I am, how wonderful my life is, how blessed I am. I feel beautiful, I do things that remind me I am beautiful. I don’t rely on others to make me feel that way. I hope as a personal trainer & stylist I can instill this in strangers, friends, family and my clients. I so hope I rub off a little on everyone… because I wish for all women (and men) to feel confident and beautiful.
xoxo
Sweater – Gilly Hicks- Shorts- Bandits by One Teaspoon Denim
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I love your destroyed shorts! Also, you always have the best flowers and I cannot get over how effortlessly amazing your hair always look! You’re perfect!!
xxx
Camilla
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great photos!! love the ripped shorts and the flowers are a nice touch~ Xx. parparv.com
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I need to get my hands on a pair of destroyed mom jeans I think!
Danika Maia
http://www.danikamaia.com
BLOGLOVIN’
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Head to http://www.oneteaspoon.com.au/ although these show a little butt cheek if you are not careful are you OK with that? (have to watch how I bend over) their jeans tend to be a little bit more on the sexier side, they have great boyfriend jeans too!
XOXO
Heather
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Sharing flowers is such a good idea! Great way to spread the love around.
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I love your confidence Heather and you’re workin those shorts! You’re gorgeous. I am not the most confident person. I like how you said you don’t rely on others to make you feel beautiful. I need to apply that to life in general, and not expect others to build me up.
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Really chic distressed denim shorts and love how the roses add a romantic touch to the images! Thanks for sharing!
Prudence
http://www.prudencepetitestyle.com
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Love the photos! gorgeous as always! Love buying flowers for myself and friends!
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Fun and laughter is essential to life I believe. Smiling and laughing just makes life better. Why frown when you can smile. You look amazing in these photos as well. Work it girl ;). I hope to see you at my new blog next week.
Kay of Pure & Complex
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This look is exactly what I wear on everyday basis.Love it!
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Great outfit. But your thoughts about confidence, I like the part about not taking yourself seriously. Thanks for sharing.
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Well said love, I agree with you on every single one of those elements.
Bravo
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